I Like To be.....

I Like To be.....

    In this world, all children have their own wish to be what they have seen in real life and put himself in that place and feel that he is that person having command over.But whenever time goes on, and parents see other children going well in their flow, they treat their child to do what that child is doing. And also give him/her suggestion to be what he is going to be. But this time, parents are in fault. They never try to ask their children for what they like to be.
    What is his wish ? what type of activity he is doing? watch such activity from which parents get idea about children's thoughts. If at childhood, he is acting like an police officer, commend it and inspire him to do it more. Because if he has fixed what he like to be, he will collect information how to do , what to do for that. But instead of this commendation and inspiration, parents neglect and scold him for his act. This is very ridiculous for the children. Because one time parent scold him, he always be worried about his act and he will think before he do anything. He will also afraid of telling his thoughts and ideas to the parents. Because in India, there is one rule that in front of elders, younger can't speak and argue with them. If he does, he is not well trained child.

    Parents every time forget that they were also child and they also face same thing with their parents. Then why to repeat that role this time also. Parents should have be patience and calm while talking with children. They need to first hear children and then tell him about the reality. If he is going in right way, let him go, but if he is in fault, make it correct and put their apple of eye in wright direction. If you as parent understand your children, because children don't have knowledge difference between good and bad, we give him knowledge about this. So keep your child alive with their own thoughts, instead of killing them.